Brad's Book List - June 2023


Brad's Book List - June 2023

Highlights from this month

Brad, why do you always rate books either 4 or 5 stars? Aren't you being a little too generous?

This is a question I get often, especially from my friends on Goodreads. You may be wondering the same. Can we trust this guy? He seems a bit naive or overly impressed with every book he reads.

Here is my simple answer: If a book is boring or unhelpful, I stop reading it.

The only time I finish reading bad books (that would receive a 1-3 star rating) is if I promised someone I would read it (which I rarely do for said reasons above) or if it is for a specific project I am working on. But 99% of the time, I will stop reading a boring book, which means I won't rate it at all. Last week, I read 100 pages of a book on Christian courage that I was hoping would get better. It didn't, so I stopped reading it. This is also one of the main ways to read more books. Many people think they have to keep reading a book once they start. If that is your mentality, I bet you are in the middle of a boring book you started three months ago. If so, toss it and try another.

Also, it is incredibly difficult to write and publish a book. If an author is so compelling that I finish their book within a few days, they are getting 4 or 5 stars.

Top Quotes from June 2023:

  • "People who focus on themselves seek to gain attention. Speakers who focus on content give out information. Communicators who focus on others make a connection." -John Maxwell
  • "He'd worked in a bookstore long enough to know that no matter how good a book is, someone will hate it, and they're likely to tell you. But as long as that book is only in your head, it is still perfect." -Erica Bauermeister
  • "Ultimately, self-control isn't about you. It's about you surrendering to God's purposes for you. And it's not about getting success or money or power. In the end, it's about love." -Drew Dyck
  • "Pastors, like therapists, evoke feelings in people that go way back into people's past... Pastors are special candidates for transference, since they are authority figures." -David Hansen
  • "Burnout has less to do with workload and more to do with internal and external leadership anxiety." -Steve Cuss

Top Books from June 2023:

Whether I am preaching, leading a staff meeting, or counseling, the bulk of my day is spent communicating. I've read some great books on communication, but this has now become my number one on the topic.

Maxwell does a tremendous job helping communicators understand their primary task is to add value to the listener. The temptation in public speaking is to look impressive, sound intelligent, and make it all about ourselves. But the most effective and enjoyable speakers prepare and deliver their content in a way that serves and helps their audience live better. And the key to doing this is through connection. If you are a public speaker (or aspiring to be one) this book is essential!

I listened to this one on audiobook and enjoyed it thoroughly. I have heard wonderful things about Beth Moore but haven't read any of her books. Having the chance to listen in to some of the highlights and lowlights of her life was a true privilege. Her honesty and vulnerability about being sexually abused as a child, the challenges of marriage, and the pain of leaving the church denomination she was a part of her entire life was heartbreaking. One of the things I dislike about audiobooks is that I rarely record the great quotes, but there were some gems in this one.

In 1893, over 25 million people from around the world flocked to the Chicago World's Fair. The Devil in the White City tells two overlapping stories about how the fair came together (which is more exciting than it probably sounds) and a serial killer who used the fair as an opportunity to steal, kill, and exploit.

H.H. Holmes was a charmer of women, but one of the most wicked people to walk the earth. He became America's first famous serial killer and Larson does a remarkable job telling the story in a way that made it difficult to put the book down.

We have been preaching through a sermon series in our church called, "Becoming Beautiful People." We are learning about character formation by highlighting one virtue of Jesus each week. This upcoming Sunday, I will be preaching on self-control, and this book shaped my sermon significantly!

All of us have bad habits. In Your Future Self Will Thank You, Drew Dyck unpacks the main reasons why we do and how to grow into a people who are self-controlled. It is gospel-drenched, humorous, practical, and filled with scientific studies. If you have any bad habits you would like to quit, this book will help.

I am a sucker for books about books. When I heard about this one I immediately put it on my wish list - and I am glad I did.

In No Two Persons, Bauermeister tells the story of an author who writes a best-selling novel that makes its way around the country. Each chapter is a different story about someone who read the book and how it changed their perspective on life. From a widower, to an artist, a bookseller, and teenager, the book is beautifully written and allows you to walk in the shoes of someone else for a day. Bauermeister is a master storyteller and there were several chapters I wish had become their own books.

Other Books Read in June 2023:

  • Managing Leadership Anxiety by Steve Cuss - 4 stars
  • A Very Punchable Face by Colin Jost - 4 stars
  • The Art of Pastoring by David Hansen - 4 stars
  • The Old Man and the Sea by Ernest Hemingway - 4 stars
  • In the Garden of Beasts by Erik Larson- 4.5 stars
  • Humility by Andrew Murray - 4 stars

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*Just because I recommend a book does not mean I endorse everything in it. Like the biblical narrative, there is always brokenness in the midst of beauty.

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